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Are the causes of problems just a lack of empathy?

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The philosophy behind empathy You can take a look at your own problems and look what or who they have caused them. Is it you? Is it your employer? Is it your kids? ..... Is it the washing machine? And so on .... Check it out with this philosophy approach. 'When you are restless and you are out of your rythm you break things, even your housepets are restless. You are restless for which reason? Emotions does that with you, you are not thinking straight, it is a complete chaos in your body. You need to calm down, first your thoughts, second of all your feelings and at last your body. Listen to your heartbeat and when you are once again in balance try to fix your problems and use empathy towards yourself and others. Before the rush and the problems came on the scene where was your empathy? Go back and remember... 8 out of 10 say they were in a hurry and forgot about themselves, their kids, other things were more important. Check it out for yourself toda

What is your daily battle?

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Yes, we have our daily battle(s). I have mine, you have yours, your family has it and strangers have them. Why??? Some structure will help you to understand A child is innocent and plays all day long without resistance. This same child has to deal with a lie from another child, begins crying and feels suddenly unhappy. Suddenly the child doesn't trust anyone anymore, In a later stage in life this child is aware that a friend can be trust full or not at all. So why? To grow, yes and to become stronger within yourself. How to deal with this battle? # 1 Try to learn and understand the battle(s) in your daily life. 3 things are effective to understand: the battle with yourself, the one with others and the one with the circumstances. To go in battle with others and circumstances is WAR, with yourself is PEACE. ESPECIALLY the last one is the hardest one of all and for that reason you need to use all the empathy that's available for you to deal w

How make new friends with your blog or website?

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Once again a very heartfull welcome today in my home "Communciation in your daily network" On this Friday the 24th of June I like to share with you how cosy you can make it for your friends on your website or blog. Yes you can, just start with a fresh mind and a warm feeling heart. How? 1 Don't be a genius, write from your heart and tell about your passion. 2 Use often video, infographics, pictures, self made material to shine happiness. 3 Give help from your heart, forget about your mind while writing a post. 4 The "Who are you story". 5 Visualise your website and blog as a welcoming home, so people feel comfortable. Music tones for nice vibrations are also welcome :-)

Are you afraid of what is not in front of you?

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You use everyday your eyes to see what is in front of you. That's kind of normal, it is human :-) When you want to achieve your goals, at first they are not in front of you off course... And that is why you can be afraid of your own goalsetting. You want it but fear is nearby. What to do? #1 Visualise , like it is already there in your life. The magnet will begin working: you attract it. Make sure you practice with little goals, otherwise you will be disapointed and frustrated. #2 Take action early in the morning and make a list of what you want to do for attracting your goal. #3 Let people know what you are doing and ask if you can help them with your product/services. These 3 motivators pushes you to take action and it will take a low effort to attract what you desire.

Why your network grows?

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# 1 law of attraction You love what you are doing and your good feeling attracts others to your network. # 2 empathy in your daily communication You have a sense of caring for others in a healthy way and you are trust worthy. You Always see the good in people, even if they have conflicts or their behavior is bad. This reflects in your way of speaking and non-verbal actions. # 3 you believe in your service and product You use the service and products daily with love and care. You follow the latest trends and have a visionary view. Your believe is huge. And your network loves it when you encourage them to learn and grow. # 4 you are creative Every moment of the day some idea pops up in your mind even if you are in nature, with friends, on holidays and so on... It isn't a 9 to 5 job you have, it is more an adventure in your life. # 5 you are present on social media Social media was born out of the idea staying in touch while face to face contact no longer wa

Networking in the purest form, simple isn't it?

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JOIN ME empathyeffect.blogspot.com Communication skills Veronique Beauprez

7 star thoughts for success in networking

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1 Look at what you are thinking right now. 2 Sentences or images, how are your thoughts coming in? 3 Images are more powerfull. 4 Change negative ones into positive ones. 5 Look at the current images and don't allow yourself to go be influenced by them especially when they are negative. 6 Put your ideas into action. 7 Teach yourself new thoughts for your progress in networking.

3 reasons why some of your team members keep struggling

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#1 They have the habit of making conflicts with others because he/she thinks struggling is a part of who they are. #2 He or she is afraid of losing control and the networking gives them a helping hand in their struggling. So they are scared of not being a part of the team. The struggling is a method of surviving, even in a wonderfull networking environment. #3 Your team member in this scenario of struggling is a lover of drama. Low energies like envy, comparison, feeling guilty, family drama and keeping up a perfect scenario are a part of their daily feelings. Sometimes they are trainable but don't spent too much time and effort showing them to live without fear and how they can follow their passion in life. Just keep asking how they are doing and show your empathy.

Stop your worries and visualise your GOAL

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GOALS are important while building your network with positive results. - use empathy in your daily communication - integrate your main goal into your goalmap - keep growing your network activities

How can you help your depressed team member/ - friend?

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Once in a while one of your team members/- friends is feeling really down. He or she is so tired and is dealing with a depression that you can only observe what is going wrong. I have developed a special communication course of 10 steps so you can help your friend through this difficult period in a easy to learn coaching way. I offer you this online course of one day and you guide yourself through the 10 steps. The price is 97,00 euro inclusive one month guidance in new skills. Subscribe for the online course: info@genare.be - more payment details will follow via e-mail. Do you want a try out? A free course of 10 minutes will be sent to your e-mail address. Help out your team member/ - friend.

Which steps to make in networking to achieve your dream?

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The dream can blind you from your current reality. Your dream can be a reality when you set your mind and feelings on the following steps: Networking? Ask yourself, what's in it for me and for my team? Create a vision of success. Get the big picture of what has to be learned. Take small steps towards your dream. Vision goes along with suitable activities, diagrams and put your ideas on cards. Take breaks to internalise your learning. Explode the subject using every possible sense. Show you know or demonstrate your knowledge. Reflect on how you could do better. This is really easy to understand, not always easy to integrate in your communication towards yourself and others. One golden rule: know yourself really well! What are your thoughts, feelings at this moment? Are you feeling happy and enjoying yourself? Keep this in mind how it feels and each time your negative energy enters your system, call those feelings and e