Inspiring YOU in kindness for people

My November theme is all about the dark days transformating in light. If you want to put light into your life in these dark days due to the fall and winter in the last months of 2016 use positive thoughts and words. In the summer positive thinking is easier and feels lighter than today. When you use the positive energy you give others love and constructive thoughts. Don't expect instant positive response, the vibes have to find its way into the others mind and heart. Which words do you have to chose and use? Talk about beauty, all the good things in the world, the noble, the construction and above all the love. The power of these words will give light into the mind and hearts, they will act in a higher energy state, they will flourish and they will pass it on to others. Say something positive, what brings advantage to others or make them happy. You will be happy in return.   

What the hell is happening? You work and you learn and above all the things that really matters in your life you get a daily overflow of information. How to deal with this? First I wanna share with you my insights. At the end of the day I am tired and all  I wanna do is relax my brain and body, be still for a few hours, watch a show or movie and go to bed. And in weekends take a breath and enjoy the free days. But what is true? Instead I keep reading and go for a walk, work in my home and before I know it I am tired once again. Why is that I wondered? I want to learn a lot of things in life before I die and nowadays we have a lot of information on internet, in books, and even outdoors. All the time we are blinded by so many people, publicity and information. Last week I went several times into the Woods and spend an hour in nature to calm down. It worked out just fine and this week I will do the same. But still I have to be carefull with the overload even if the temptati

What about it? Is this really about sex? Sex is like money, you need it and still you don't like to talk about it. Instead you laugh or you flirt. Or you cry and you have sorrows about it. SEX and MONEY, what a mess it can be in your life. And still they are both our basic needs and the shame is so big to talk about it that it sometimes makes you sick. It causes pain and disasters in our lives. Try asking today to someone what he or she wants to say about SEX. Try a little survey if you dare. You will be surprised about the answers and non-verbal behaviour. May I take you in a  conversation about SEX? Once I was not ashamed at all to talk about it and I saw the lights in others their eyes when I mentionned SEX. So it is truly so human that our eyes shine more than you talk for instance about the weather. Who cares about the weather? Damn, SEX is interesting, is not it? But you also know it can be a pleasure most of the time but on the other hand also destructive w

Yes, the whole world has to deal with the same problems. From the beginning of humankind untill today in the "new and creative age", people are still very afraid of uncertainty, failure and poverty. And especially of terror, the worst fear of them all. Nobody wants to be captured and killed on the street by bombs. We thought we had it all under control and we are save in our own houses and country, but what is left of it??? Nothing is certain anymore, nothing! And that's why we have to deal with our fears more than ever. To all the people in the world who are victims of terror , help each other by listening and caring. Be strong and wise, don't put your anger into an inner war. Deal with your fear by being there for someone in need. Even if you have no family left, there are still others to help or help you.  At this moment in my life I inspire you and others to build an inner strenght and to deal with the brutal way of living right now in th

There is no better teacher than life and no better leadership lessons than what you’ve learned from experience, In a society roided-out on bling, cash, ego, nakedness and status we have lost our authenticity. We have lost morals and what it means to be ourselves. So many are caught up in following the crowd they have gotten lost in it. How can any type of true success come from being a follower? Followers are lost to their authenticity and are chasers of “status” and “wealth.” Followers are competitive, insecure and consistently positioning and provoking to one-up each other. The stand-out successes we all admire are not in the crowd, they aren’t chasing cash, or being cool. It doesn’t mean they don’t love nice things or indulge in them; it means they approach success from a different mindset. Read more on the inspirational Belgian Network blog

Networking can help you land your dream job , make a successful career change and meet amazing, like-minded people. But if you’re an introvert or ambivert who finds being around people exhausting, having to do it can be super tough (meeting a ton of new people and  small talk?), even though you know it’ll be good for your career. To get some smart suggestions on how the quieter half can handle the situation, we reached out to Amy K. Hall , a Brooklyn, NY-based career and life coach who specializes in personal growth and leadership. Keep reading for Amy’s six tips for introverts that’ll totally help you rock the next networking event you go to. Read more

Learning is not all about knowledge, it is a way of living. Even better, it is a lifestyle! And it is fun too! But what is really learning now? You read a book and you want to know everything about making APPS for instance. You begin with a lot of courage and spirit. On page 25 you don't understand a word of what they are saying and you quit. "It is not for me, I am stupid etc... On that point you didn't learn anything so far, so it is time to hold on and persist in what you are learning. Everyone who passed this point of giving up are the best students. They are eager to learn and cope with their frustrations. Like I said it is a lifestyle, a commitment! Learning is holding on in frustration, feeling bad sometimes and the idea of quiting. We are living in a world where it is a pleasure to keep learning new things, applications and reaching out to each other to do so. For those who want to learn, the future is now. It is never a waste of time, nev

The house is empty, nobody around and yet there is furniture. Our hous was most of the time empty. I was there, playing with toys, like the dolls were my brother or sister. And yet the house was empty, not a soul around me... Just books, a doll or two, the barbies in a little home Funny, or not, more like a sad story The house at this moment is again empty. You know, it is a habit, it became a habit, and suddenly I realize In this present, the house is again empty, a freedom and also a burden... I wish it was 40 years ago a full house, so it would be right now again a FULL HOUSE!

2 weeks? A month? 3 months? Maybe one year? I have several questions for you, may I? What do you want to achieve in your life, which lifestyle do you prefer and how long do you want to invest in it? Be your own architect There are always several questions rising up concerning time and a better lifestyle, why is that? I guess it is an individual perspective of life. So you need to have a plan like an architect who is building bridges, houses and buildings. The professional architect has a plan, and often not one but several, even thousands of them. Don't expect your lifestyle will completely change in one day, it will change in small quantities as days passes. How does time work for my changes? First you will have to notice these small quantities again and again, over and over again.... Then after a period of time the big difference is in front of you and sometimes told by others surrounding you. You tend to forget there is a big change in your life due t

In fact you are satisfied, really you are!!! But on the surface of your satisfying you there are a lot of toxines. You believe you are not satisfied and you believe you have to think in the negative way. Today you can decide to let your satisfying you free, do what you wanna do and clean up your garbage. Do you wanna feel satisfied? Yes, begin with new goals where you can be yourself again, without negative influences around you. Watch the next video to understand why you are not satisfied! six minutes to success

We have a nice summer due to the good and warm weather. We have reached the middle of the summer holidays and August is coming nearby. Are you still on holiday or at home working in the garden, enjoy the days with your children or at work? Why worry? Last week I spoke to Marc about the fear and terror in the world and he told me something wise. As a child in the second world war he played with his brothers and friends in the summer and they enjoyed this very much. Soldiers were present all the time in his hometown but people had their lives and life went on and on. He said men are Always in battle and some generations have it harder than others but life goes on. We just have to cope with it. Today he is 86 years old and still riding a bike, living alone in his house and still believing in life like he was a kid during the World War. We are in a war period, yes we are. Or better, we are still in peace and dealing with a battle that perhaps is not ours but still it is present

#1 Lies # 2 Manipulations # 3 The others are guilty-game Are you using one of these 3 and you wanna see a change in your behaviour? Please take 2 minutes of your time to learn why it happens to you? Crazy isn't but lying is still at number 1. What's behind this mockery? You want to protect others and don't wanna be hurt and you have only this way that works out for you. You survive on lies. You use it daily, weekly, and without realizing it, it has become a big part of your behavior. Even crazier, you don't know the difference between the truth and a lie. These 2 are merged in one and other. You'll find it such a good way to make a mockery of someone, so easy for you and sometimes your image is one with a high self-confidence. In short you will find lies the most normal thing in the world. Manipulation in the purest form of the word is to affect others and deprive themselves of their individuality. So you are dangerous for the others. If

1. Vibrations are everywhere 2. Vibrations are the cause and effect of what happens in life 3. Vibrations are shown on different levels by feeling sad to happiness 4. Vibrations have no physical appearances, to see them you have to practice on doing so 5. Vibrations brings the inner you to the world outside, are you feeling sad, sadness will appear in your life, feeling happy, hapiness is all around you 6. Vibrations change of their rythm, life and even death have vibrations but they have another rythm

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In the serie "The psychology behind empathy" - Veronique Beauprez Yesterday I looked at  " The Blacklist" - NBC production where  a former U.S. Navy officer turned high-profile criminal, voluntarily surrenders to the FBI after eluding capture for decades. He tells the FBI that he has a list of the most dangerous criminals in the world that he has compiled over the years and is willing to inform on their operations in exchange for immunity from prosecution . A great show, really, especially when he turns everyone around with his selfconfidence and mindgames. Humour with twisted ingredients... On a certain moment he tells to the FBI people that they have to think and look into a case with the mind of a criminal. Pop-up questions arise: What would the "con" do? How would he operate when he was tailed by police? How are his connections with the victim? .... The empathy way of looking at things or people is here an asset. A criminal

Hope is beautifull, we give hope to ourselves and to others. Sometimes it is called motivation and often trust. But what is hope without a believe in ourselves and off course action in the right direction. That is when common sense is coming on the scene of your story. A president candidate gives lots of hope to people, and that's an amzing power. You feel great and you want to vote. On the other hand is he or she taking action on political themes as we speek? Yes, both hope and action in a common sense are required for success. Plan and act are common sense. In your daily communication you can add enthousiasm towards yourself and to others. Even when you are not satisfied with things happening in your life use enthousiasm. How to be enthousiastic? The non satisfying part of you wants change. The emotion behind this awkward feeling has an enormous power. Use this for the action, stand up, go outside, walk and walk untill you feel an urge to do something today. Add a li

The philosophy behind empathy You can take a look at your own problems and look what or who they have caused them. Is it you? Is it your employer? Is it your kids? ..... Is it the washing machine? And so on .... Check it out with this philosophy approach. 'When you are restless and you are out of your rythm you break things, even your housepets are restless. You are restless for which reason? Emotions does that with you, you are not thinking straight, it is a complete chaos in your body. You need to calm down, first your thoughts, second of all your feelings and at last your body. Listen to your heartbeat and when you are once again in balance try to fix your problems and use empathy towards yourself and others. Before the rush and the problems came on the scene where was your empathy? Go back and remember... 8 out of 10 say they were in a hurry and forgot about themselves, their kids, other things were more important. Check it out for yourself toda

Yes, we have our daily battle(s). I have mine, you have yours, your family has it and strangers have them. Why??? Some structure will help you to understand A child is innocent and plays all day long without resistance. This same child has to deal with a lie from another child, begins crying and feels suddenly unhappy. Suddenly the child doesn't trust anyone anymore, In a later stage in life this child is aware that a friend can be trust full or not at all. So why? To grow, yes and to become stronger within yourself. How to deal with this battle? # 1 Try to learn and understand the battle(s) in your daily life. 3 things are effective to understand: the battle with yourself, the one with others and the one with the circumstances. To go in battle with others and circumstances is WAR, with yourself is PEACE. ESPECIALLY the last one is the hardest one of all and for that reason you need to use all the empathy that's available for you to deal w

Once again a very heartfull welcome today in my home "Communciation in your daily network" On this Friday the 24th of June I like to share with you how cosy you can make it for your friends on your website or blog. Yes you can, just start with a fresh mind and a warm feeling heart. How? 1 Don't be a genius, write from your heart and tell about your passion. 2 Use often video, infographics, pictures, self made material to shine happiness. 3 Give help from your heart, forget about your mind while writing a post. 4 The "Who are you story". 5 Visualise your website and blog as a welcoming home, so people feel comfortable. Music tones for nice vibrations are also welcome :-)

You use everyday your eyes to see what is in front of you. That's kind of normal, it is human :-) When you want to achieve your goals, at first they are not in front of you off course... And that is why you can be afraid of your own goalsetting. You want it but fear is nearby. What to do? #1 Visualise , like it is already there in your life. The magnet will begin working: you attract it. Make sure you practice with little goals, otherwise you will be disapointed and frustrated. #2 Take action early in the morning and make a list of what you want to do for attracting your goal. #3 Let people know what you are doing and ask if you can help them with your product/services. These 3 motivators pushes you to take action and it will take a low effort to attract what you desire.

# 1 law of attraction You love what you are doing and your good feeling attracts others to your network. # 2 empathy in your daily communication You have a sense of caring for others in a healthy way and you are trust worthy. You Always see the good in people, even if they have conflicts or their behavior is bad. This reflects in your way of speaking and non-verbal actions. # 3 you believe in your service and product You use the service and products daily with love and care. You follow the latest trends and have a visionary view. Your believe is huge. And your network loves it when you encourage them to learn and grow. # 4 you are creative Every moment of the day some idea pops up in your mind even if you are in nature, with friends, on holidays and so on... It isn't a 9 to 5 job you have, it is more an adventure in your life. # 5 you are present on social media Social media was born out of the idea staying in touch while face to face contact no longer wa

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1 Look at what you are thinking right now. 2 Sentences or images, how are your thoughts coming in? 3 Images are more powerfull. 4 Change negative ones into positive ones. 5 Look at the current images and don't allow yourself to go be influenced by them especially when they are negative. 6 Put your ideas into action. 7 Teach yourself new thoughts for your progress in networking.

#1 They have the habit of making conflicts with others because he/she thinks struggling is a part of who they are. #2 He or she is afraid of losing control and the networking gives them a helping hand in their struggling. So they are scared of not being a part of the team. The struggling is a method of surviving, even in a wonderfull networking environment. #3 Your team member in this scenario of struggling is a lover of drama. Low energies like envy, comparison, feeling guilty, family drama and keeping up a perfect scenario are a part of their daily feelings. Sometimes they are trainable but don't spent too much time and effort showing them to live without fear and how they can follow their passion in life. Just keep asking how they are doing and show your empathy.

GOALS are important while building your network with positive results. - use empathy in your daily communication - integrate your main goal into your goalmap - keep growing your network activities

Once in a while one of your team members/- friends is feeling really down. He or she is so tired and is dealing with a depression that you can only observe what is going wrong. I have developed a special communication course of 10 steps so you can help your friend through this difficult period in a easy to learn coaching way. I offer you this online course of one day and you guide yourself through the 10 steps. The price is 97,00 euro inclusive one month guidance in new skills. Subscribe for the online course: info@genare.be - more payment details will follow via e-mail. Do you want a try out? A free course of 10 minutes will be sent to your e-mail address. Help out your team member/ - friend.

The dream can blind you from your current reality. Your dream can be a reality when you set your mind and feelings on the following steps: Networking? Ask yourself, what's in it for me and for my team? Create a vision of success. Get the big picture of what has to be learned. Take small steps towards your dream. Vision goes along with suitable activities, diagrams and put your ideas on cards. Take breaks to internalise your learning. Explode the subject using every possible sense. Show you know or demonstrate your knowledge. Reflect on how you could do better. This is really easy to understand, not always easy to integrate in your communication towards yourself and others. One golden rule: know yourself really well! What are your thoughts, feelings at this moment? Are you feeling happy and enjoying yourself? Keep this in mind how it feels and each time your negative energy enters your system, call those feelings and e

Empathy is recommended to be used in your network activities. You will have a long relationship with your upline and downline and so know these people very well. What do you already know? Off course you know they have children and how they look like. But showing empathy means caring about who they really are, even accept their differences. How to integrate this in your daily communication? #1 Put your goals aside for 10 minutes and listen to others what they need and care about. Use ears, eyes and your HEART. #2 Tell your own story off course and make room in it for other stories. Tell others everyone is welcome in your life for a greater purpose in life, doing someting together is worth more while than being a loner. #3 Watch out for your EGO! If you think all of the time at your income, your goal settings and how beautifull you are, people around you will hate you for that, at least after a while. It is not always about you, remember that all of t

Communication effects hugely your goals. 3 massive tips #1 Tell your own story, not that from your upline or downline but really yours and why you are doing what you are doing! #2 Combine the following methods: - face to face : this should be number one, all of the time, because you can put more empathy in the conversation based on a natural way. - by telephone : if really necesarry or if you know the person and want to hear him or her after a long time. - e-mail: daily to new people with permission - social media : 2 to 3 times a day (morning, noon and evening) #3 Keep these communication methods in an archive, so you are able to evaluate what is working for you and what isn't. Have fun all day with what you are doing!