What about SEX?

What about it?

Is this really about sex?

Sex is like money, you need it and still you don't like to talk about it. Instead you laugh or you flirt. Or you cry and you have sorrows about it. SEX and MONEY, what a mess it can be in your life.
And still they are both our basic needs and the shame is so big to talk about it that it sometimes makes you sick. It causes pain and disasters in our lives.
Try asking today to someone what he or she wants to say about SEX. Try a little survey if you dare. You will be surprised about the answers and non-verbal behaviour.

May I take you in a  conversation about SEX?

Once I was not ashamed at all to talk about it and I saw the lights in others their eyes when I mentionned SEX. So it is truly so human that our eyes shine more than you talk for instance about the weather. Who cares about the weather? Damn, SEX is interesting, is not it?
But you also know it can be a pleasure most of the time but on the other hand also destructive when it shows its anger and fear. Perhaps that's why it is still a taboo.
At first it is exciting and so like an adventure and after a while it is slowing down due to relation problems, fear, other reasons and so on...
So it is fun and thrilling to have SEX but how does the dice rolls?
Isn't that why we are not talking about it and close our mouth about our basic needs and instead eat chocolate? :-)

And off course you get very close to each other and is this a threat?
Yes it can be a scary thing for some people.
I guess once again that an introvert person looks with another angle to SEX at first than an extravert person.

There are a Thousand reasons apparently, but none is true, all illusions off course and fear as a nightmare.

Try to open it in conversations, don't be ashamed.

Veronique Beauprez
info@genare.be