Inspiring YOU in kindness for people

Learning is not all about knowledge, it is a way of living. Even better, it is a lifestyle! And it is fun too! But what is really learning now? You read a book and you want to know everything about making APPS for instance. You begin with a lot of courage and spirit. On page 25 you don't understand a word of what they are saying and you quit. "It is not for me, I am stupid etc... On that point you didn't learn anything so far, so it is time to hold on and persist in what you are learning. Everyone who passed this point of giving up are the best students. They are eager to learn and cope with their frustrations. Like I said it is a lifestyle, a commitment! Learning is holding on in frustration, feeling bad sometimes and the idea of quiting. We are living in a world where it is a pleasure to keep learning new things, applications and reaching out to each other to do so. For those who want to learn, the future is now. It is never a waste of time, nev...

In the serie "The psychology behind empathy" - Veronique Beauprez Yesterday I looked at  " The Blacklist" - NBC production where  a former U.S. Navy officer turned high-profile criminal, voluntarily surrenders to the FBI after eluding capture for decades. He tells the FBI that he has a list of the most dangerous criminals in the world that he has compiled over the years and is willing to inform on their operations in exchange for immunity from prosecution . A great show, really, especially when he turns everyone around with his selfconfidence and mindgames. Humour with twisted ingredients... On a certain moment he tells to the FBI people that they have to think and look into a case with the mind of a criminal. Pop-up questions arise: What would the "con" do? How would he operate when he was tailed by police? How are his connections with the victim? .... The empathy way of looking at things or people is here an asset. A criminal ...

Hope is beautifull, we give hope to ourselves and to others. Sometimes it is called motivation and often trust. But what is hope without a believe in ourselves and off course action in the right direction. That is when common sense is coming on the scene of your story. A president candidate gives lots of hope to people, and that's an amzing power. You feel great and you want to vote. On the other hand is he or she taking action on political themes as we speek? Yes, both hope and action in a common sense are required for success. Plan and act are common sense. In your daily communication you can add enthousiasm towards yourself and to others. Even when you are not satisfied with things happening in your life use enthousiasm. How to be enthousiastic? The non satisfying part of you wants change. The emotion behind this awkward feeling has an enormous power. Use this for the action, stand up, go outside, walk and walk untill you feel an urge to do something today...

The philosophy behind empathy You can take a look at your own problems and look what or who they have caused them. Is it you? Is it your employer? Is it your kids? ..... Is it the washing machine? And so on .... Check it out with this philosophy approach. 'When you are restless and you are out of your rythm you break things, even your housepets are restless. You are restless for which reason? Emotions does that with you, you are not thinking straight, it is a complete chaos in your body. You need to calm down, first your thoughts, second of all your feelings and at last your body. Listen to your heartbeat and when you are once again in balance try to fix your problems and use empathy towards yourself and others. Before the rush and the problems came on the scene where was your empathy? Go back and remember... 8 out of 10 say they were in a hurry and forgot about themselves, their kids, other things were more important. Check it out for yourself toda...

Yes, we have our daily battle(s). I have mine, you have yours, your family has it and strangers have them. Why??? Some structure will help you to understand A child is innocent and plays all day long without resistance. This same child has to deal with a lie from another child, begins crying and feels suddenly unhappy. Suddenly the child doesn't trust anyone anymore, In a later stage in life this child is aware that a friend can be trust full or not at all. So why? To grow, yes and to become stronger within yourself. How to deal with this battle? # 1 Try to learn and understand the battle(s) in your daily life. 3 things are effective to understand: the battle with yourself, the one with others and the one with the circumstances. To go in battle with others and circumstances is WAR, with yourself is PEACE. ESPECIALLY the last one is the hardest one of all and for that reason you need to use all the empathy that's available for you to deal w...

You use everyday your eyes to see what is in front of you. That's kind of normal, it is human :-) When you want to achieve your goals, at first they are not in front of you off course... And that is why you can be afraid of your own goalsetting. You want it but fear is nearby. What to do? #1 Visualise , like it is already there in your life. The magnet will begin working: you attract it. Make sure you practice with little goals, otherwise you will be disapointed and frustrated. #2 Take action early in the morning and make a list of what you want to do for attracting your goal. #3 Let people know what you are doing and ask if you can help them with your product/services. These 3 motivators pushes you to take action and it will take a low effort to attract what you desire.

# 1 law of attraction You love what you are doing and your good feeling attracts others to your network. # 2 empathy in your daily communication You have a sense of caring for others in a healthy way and you are trust worthy. You Always see the good in people, even if they have conflicts or their behavior is bad. This reflects in your way of speaking and non-verbal actions. # 3 you believe in your service and product You use the service and products daily with love and care. You follow the latest trends and have a visionary view. Your believe is huge. And your network loves it when you encourage them to learn and grow. # 4 you are creative Every moment of the day some idea pops up in your mind even if you are in nature, with friends, on holidays and so on... It isn't a 9 to 5 job you have, it is more an adventure in your life. # 5 you are present on social media Social media was born out of the idea staying in touch while face to face contact no long...

1 Look at what you are thinking right now. 2 Sentences or images, how are your thoughts coming in? 3 Images are more powerfull. 4 Change negative ones into positive ones. 5 Look at the current images and don't allow yourself to go be influenced by them especially when they are negative. 6 Put your ideas into action. 7 Teach yourself new thoughts for your progress in networking.

The dream can blind you from your current reality. Your dream can be a reality when you set your mind and feelings on the following steps: Networking? Ask yourself, what's in it for me and for my team? Create a vision of success. Get the big picture of what has to be learned. Take small steps towards your dream. Vision goes along with suitable activities, diagrams and put your ideas on cards. Take breaks to internalise your learning. Explode the subject using every possible sense. Show you know or demonstrate your knowledge. Reflect on how you could do better. This is really easy to understand, not always easy to integrate in your communication towards yourself and others. One golden rule: know yourself really well! What are your thoughts, feelings at this moment? Are you feeling happy and enjoying yourself? Keep this in mind how it feels and each time your negative energy enters your system, call those feelings and e...