Inspiring YOU in kindness for people

Yes, the whole world has to deal with the same problems. From the beginning of humankind untill today in the "new and creative age", people are still very afraid of uncertainty, failure and poverty. And especially of terror, the worst fear of them all. Nobody wants to be captured and killed on the street by bombs. We thought we had it all under control and we are save in our own houses and country, but what is left of it??? Nothing is certain anymore, nothing! And that's why we have to deal with our fears more than ever. To all the people in the world who are victims of terror , help each other by listening and caring. Be strong and wise, don't put your anger into an inner war. Deal with your fear by being there for someone in need. Even if you have no family left, there are still others to help or help you.  At this moment in my life I inspire you and others to build an inner strenght and to deal with the brutal way of living right now in t...

We have a nice summer due to the good and warm weather. We have reached the middle of the summer holidays and August is coming nearby. Are you still on holiday or at home working in the garden, enjoy the days with your children or at work? Why worry? Last week I spoke to Marc about the fear and terror in the world and he told me something wise. As a child in the second world war he played with his brothers and friends in the summer and they enjoyed this very much. Soldiers were present all the time in his hometown but people had their lives and life went on and on. He said men are Always in battle and some generations have it harder than others but life goes on. We just have to cope with it. Today he is 86 years old and still riding a bike, living alone in his house and still believing in life like he was a kid during the World War. We are in a war period, yes we are. Or better, we are still in peace and dealing with a battle that perhaps is not ours but still it is pres...

#1 Lies # 2 Manipulations # 3 The others are guilty-game Are you using one of these 3 and you wanna see a change in your behaviour? Please take 2 minutes of your time to learn why it happens to you? Crazy isn't but lying is still at number 1. What's behind this mockery? You want to protect others and don't wanna be hurt and you have only this way that works out for you. You survive on lies. You use it daily, weekly, and without realizing it, it has become a big part of your behavior. Even crazier, you don't know the difference between the truth and a lie. These 2 are merged in one and other. You'll find it such a good way to make a mockery of someone, so easy for you and sometimes your image is one with a high self-confidence. In short you will find lies the most normal thing in the world. Manipulation in the purest form of the word is to affect others and deprive themselves of their individuali...

In the serie "The psychology behind empathy" - Veronique Beauprez Yesterday I looked at  " The Blacklist" - NBC production where  a former U.S. Navy officer turned high-profile criminal, voluntarily surrenders to the FBI after eluding capture for decades. He tells the FBI that he has a list of the most dangerous criminals in the world that he has compiled over the years and is willing to inform on their operations in exchange for immunity from prosecution . A great show, really, especially when he turns everyone around with his selfconfidence and mindgames. Humour with twisted ingredients... On a certain moment he tells to the FBI people that they have to think and look into a case with the mind of a criminal. Pop-up questions arise: What would the "con" do? How would he operate when he was tailed by police? How are his connections with the victim? .... The empathy way of looking at things or people is here an asset. A criminal ...