Inspiring YOU in kindness for people

What the hell is happening? You work and you learn and above all the things that really matters in your life you get a daily overflow of information. How to deal with this? First I wanna share with you my insights. At the end of the day I am tired and all  I wanna do is relax my brain and body, be still for a few hours, watch a show or movie and go to bed. And in weekends take a breath and enjoy the free days. But what is true? Instead I keep reading and go for a walk, work in my home and before I know it I am tired once again. Why is that I wondered? I want to learn a lot of things in life before I die and nowadays we have a lot of information on internet, in books, and even outdoors. All the time we are blinded by so many people, publicity and information. Last week I went several times into the Woods and spend an hour in nature to calm down. It worked out just fine and this week I will do the same. But still I have to be carefull with the overload even if the temp...

What about it? Is this really about sex? Sex is like money, you need it and still you don't like to talk about it. Instead you laugh or you flirt. Or you cry and you have sorrows about it. SEX and MONEY, what a mess it can be in your life. And still they are both our basic needs and the shame is so big to talk about it that it sometimes makes you sick. It causes pain and disasters in our lives. Try asking today to someone what he or she wants to say about SEX. Try a little survey if you dare. You will be surprised about the answers and non-verbal behaviour. May I take you in a  conversation about SEX? Once I was not ashamed at all to talk about it and I saw the lights in others their eyes when I mentionned SEX. So it is truly so human that our eyes shine more than you talk for instance about the weather. Who cares about the weather? Damn, SEX is interesting, is not it? But you also know it can be a pleasure most of the time but on the othe...

There is no better teacher than life and no better leadership lessons than what you’ve learned from experience, In a society roided-out on bling, cash, ego, nakedness and status we have lost our authenticity. We have lost morals and what it means to be ourselves. So many are caught up in following the crowd they have gotten lost in it. How can any type of true success come from being a follower? Followers are lost to their authenticity and are chasers of “status” and “wealth.” Followers are competitive, insecure and consistently positioning and provoking to one-up each other. The stand-out successes we all admire are not in the crowd, they aren’t chasing cash, or being cool. It doesn’t mean they don’t love nice things or indulge in them; it means they approach success from a different mindset. Read more on the inspirational Belgian Network blog

Learning is not all about knowledge, it is a way of living. Even better, it is a lifestyle! And it is fun too! But what is really learning now? You read a book and you want to know everything about making APPS for instance. You begin with a lot of courage and spirit. On page 25 you don't understand a word of what they are saying and you quit. "It is not for me, I am stupid etc... On that point you didn't learn anything so far, so it is time to hold on and persist in what you are learning. Everyone who passed this point of giving up are the best students. They are eager to learn and cope with their frustrations. Like I said it is a lifestyle, a commitment! Learning is holding on in frustration, feeling bad sometimes and the idea of quiting. We are living in a world where it is a pleasure to keep learning new things, applications and reaching out to each other to do so. For those who want to learn, the future is now. It is never a waste of time, nev...

In fact you are satisfied, really you are!!! But on the surface of your satisfying you there are a lot of toxines. You believe you are not satisfied and you believe you have to think in the negative way. Today you can decide to let your satisfying you free, do what you wanna do and clean up your garbage. Do you wanna feel satisfied? Yes, begin with new goals where you can be yourself again, without negative influences around you. Watch the next video to understand why you are not satisfied! six minutes to success

#1 Lies # 2 Manipulations # 3 The others are guilty-game Are you using one of these 3 and you wanna see a change in your behaviour? Please take 2 minutes of your time to learn why it happens to you? Crazy isn't but lying is still at number 1. What's behind this mockery? You want to protect others and don't wanna be hurt and you have only this way that works out for you. You survive on lies. You use it daily, weekly, and without realizing it, it has become a big part of your behavior. Even crazier, you don't know the difference between the truth and a lie. These 2 are merged in one and other. You'll find it such a good way to make a mockery of someone, so easy for you and sometimes your image is one with a high self-confidence. In short you will find lies the most normal thing in the world. Manipulation in the purest form of the word is to affect others and deprive themselves of their individuali...

In the serie "The psychology behind empathy" - Veronique Beauprez Yesterday I looked at  " The Blacklist" - NBC production where  a former U.S. Navy officer turned high-profile criminal, voluntarily surrenders to the FBI after eluding capture for decades. He tells the FBI that he has a list of the most dangerous criminals in the world that he has compiled over the years and is willing to inform on their operations in exchange for immunity from prosecution . A great show, really, especially when he turns everyone around with his selfconfidence and mindgames. Humour with twisted ingredients... On a certain moment he tells to the FBI people that they have to think and look into a case with the mind of a criminal. Pop-up questions arise: What would the "con" do? How would he operate when he was tailed by police? How are his connections with the victim? .... The empathy way of looking at things or people is here an asset. A criminal ...