Inspiring YOU in kindness for people

Yes, this is a new year and I am ready! The past was inspiring and in theory very usefull. In 2017 I take you with me on a new journey and I will come to you. You can sit and relax and follow my nomad life as a world traveller. The content will unroll bit by bit as I move along. Let me surprise you! The first impressions will be seen next week with visualisation and text. Have a great year!

Yes, the whole world has to deal with the same problems. From the beginning of humankind untill today in the "new and creative age", people are still very afraid of uncertainty, failure and poverty. And especially of terror, the worst fear of them all. Nobody wants to be captured and killed on the street by bombs. We thought we had it all under control and we are save in our own houses and country, but what is left of it??? Nothing is certain anymore, nothing! And that's why we have to deal with our fears more than ever. To all the people in the world who are victims of terror , help each other by listening and caring. Be strong and wise, don't put your anger into an inner war. Deal with your fear by being there for someone in need. Even if you have no family left, there are still others to help or help you.  At this moment in my life I inspire you and others to build an inner strenght and to deal with the brutal way of living right now in t...

There is no better teacher than life and no better leadership lessons than what you’ve learned from experience, In a society roided-out on bling, cash, ego, nakedness and status we have lost our authenticity. We have lost morals and what it means to be ourselves. So many are caught up in following the crowd they have gotten lost in it. How can any type of true success come from being a follower? Followers are lost to their authenticity and are chasers of “status” and “wealth.” Followers are competitive, insecure and consistently positioning and provoking to one-up each other. The stand-out successes we all admire are not in the crowd, they aren’t chasing cash, or being cool. It doesn’t mean they don’t love nice things or indulge in them; it means they approach success from a different mindset. Read more on the inspirational Belgian Network blog

2 weeks? A month? 3 months? Maybe one year? I have several questions for you, may I? What do you want to achieve in your life, which lifestyle do you prefer and how long do you want to invest in it? Be your own architect There are always several questions rising up concerning time and a better lifestyle, why is that? I guess it is an individual perspective of life. So you need to have a plan like an architect who is building bridges, houses and buildings. The professional architect has a plan, and often not one but several, even thousands of them. Don't expect your lifestyle will completely change in one day, it will change in small quantities as days passes. How does time work for my changes? First you will have to notice these small quantities again and again, over and over again.... Then after a period of time the big difference is in front of you and sometimes told by others surrounding you. You tend to forget there...

We have a nice summer due to the good and warm weather. We have reached the middle of the summer holidays and August is coming nearby. Are you still on holiday or at home working in the garden, enjoy the days with your children or at work? Why worry? Last week I spoke to Marc about the fear and terror in the world and he told me something wise. As a child in the second world war he played with his brothers and friends in the summer and they enjoyed this very much. Soldiers were present all the time in his hometown but people had their lives and life went on and on. He said men are Always in battle and some generations have it harder than others but life goes on. We just have to cope with it. Today he is 86 years old and still riding a bike, living alone in his house and still believing in life like he was a kid during the World War. We are in a war period, yes we are. Or better, we are still in peace and dealing with a battle that perhaps is not ours but still it is pres...

Hope is beautifull, we give hope to ourselves and to others. Sometimes it is called motivation and often trust. But what is hope without a believe in ourselves and off course action in the right direction. That is when common sense is coming on the scene of your story. A president candidate gives lots of hope to people, and that's an amzing power. You feel great and you want to vote. On the other hand is he or she taking action on political themes as we speek? Yes, both hope and action in a common sense are required for success. Plan and act are common sense. In your daily communication you can add enthousiasm towards yourself and to others. Even when you are not satisfied with things happening in your life use enthousiasm. How to be enthousiastic? The non satisfying part of you wants change. The emotion behind this awkward feeling has an enormous power. Use this for the action, stand up, go outside, walk and walk untill you feel an urge to do something today...

The philosophy behind empathy You can take a look at your own problems and look what or who they have caused them. Is it you? Is it your employer? Is it your kids? ..... Is it the washing machine? And so on .... Check it out with this philosophy approach. 'When you are restless and you are out of your rythm you break things, even your housepets are restless. You are restless for which reason? Emotions does that with you, you are not thinking straight, it is a complete chaos in your body. You need to calm down, first your thoughts, second of all your feelings and at last your body. Listen to your heartbeat and when you are once again in balance try to fix your problems and use empathy towards yourself and others. Before the rush and the problems came on the scene where was your empathy? Go back and remember... 8 out of 10 say they were in a hurry and forgot about themselves, their kids, other things were more important. Check it out for yourself toda...

Yes, we have our daily battle(s). I have mine, you have yours, your family has it and strangers have them. Why??? Some structure will help you to understand A child is innocent and plays all day long without resistance. This same child has to deal with a lie from another child, begins crying and feels suddenly unhappy. Suddenly the child doesn't trust anyone anymore, In a later stage in life this child is aware that a friend can be trust full or not at all. So why? To grow, yes and to become stronger within yourself. How to deal with this battle? # 1 Try to learn and understand the battle(s) in your daily life. 3 things are effective to understand: the battle with yourself, the one with others and the one with the circumstances. To go in battle with others and circumstances is WAR, with yourself is PEACE. ESPECIALLY the last one is the hardest one of all and for that reason you need to use all the empathy that's available for you to deal w...

Once again a very heartfull welcome today in my home "Communciation in your daily network" On this Friday the 24th of June I like to share with you how cosy you can make it for your friends on your website or blog. Yes you can, just start with a fresh mind and a warm feeling heart. How? 1 Don't be a genius, write from your heart and tell about your passion. 2 Use often video, infographics, pictures, self made material to shine happiness. 3 Give help from your heart, forget about your mind while writing a post. 4 The "Who are you story". 5 Visualise your website and blog as a welcoming home, so people feel comfortable. Music tones for nice vibrations are also welcome :-)

# 1 law of attraction You love what you are doing and your good feeling attracts others to your network. # 2 empathy in your daily communication You have a sense of caring for others in a healthy way and you are trust worthy. You Always see the good in people, even if they have conflicts or their behavior is bad. This reflects in your way of speaking and non-verbal actions. # 3 you believe in your service and product You use the service and products daily with love and care. You follow the latest trends and have a visionary view. Your believe is huge. And your network loves it when you encourage them to learn and grow. # 4 you are creative Every moment of the day some idea pops up in your mind even if you are in nature, with friends, on holidays and so on... It isn't a 9 to 5 job you have, it is more an adventure in your life. # 5 you are present on social media Social media was born out of the idea staying in touch while face to face contact no long...

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#1 They have the habit of making conflicts with others because he/she thinks struggling is a part of who they are. #2 He or she is afraid of losing control and the networking gives them a helping hand in their struggling. So they are scared of not being a part of the team. The struggling is a method of surviving, even in a wonderfull networking environment. #3 Your team member in this scenario of struggling is a lover of drama. Low energies like envy, comparison, feeling guilty, family drama and keeping up a perfect scenario are a part of their daily feelings. Sometimes they are trainable but don't spent too much time and effort showing them to live without fear and how they can follow their passion in life. Just keep asking how they are doing and show your empathy.

GOALS are important while building your network with positive results. - use empathy in your daily communication - integrate your main goal into your goalmap - keep growing your network activities

Once in a while one of your team members/- friends is feeling really down. He or she is so tired and is dealing with a depression that you can only observe what is going wrong. I have developed a special communication course of 10 steps so you can help your friend through this difficult period in a easy to learn coaching way. I offer you this online course of one day and you guide yourself through the 10 steps. The price is 97,00 euro inclusive one month guidance in new skills. Subscribe for the online course: info@genare.be - more payment details will follow via e-mail. Do you want a try out? A free course of 10 minutes will be sent to your e-mail address. Help out your team member/ - friend.

The dream can blind you from your current reality. Your dream can be a reality when you set your mind and feelings on the following steps: Networking? Ask yourself, what's in it for me and for my team? Create a vision of success. Get the big picture of what has to be learned. Take small steps towards your dream. Vision goes along with suitable activities, diagrams and put your ideas on cards. Take breaks to internalise your learning. Explode the subject using every possible sense. Show you know or demonstrate your knowledge. Reflect on how you could do better. This is really easy to understand, not always easy to integrate in your communication towards yourself and others. One golden rule: know yourself really well! What are your thoughts, feelings at this moment? Are you feeling happy and enjoying yourself? Keep this in mind how it feels and each time your negative energy enters your system, call those feelings and e...

Empathy is recommended to be used in your network activities. You will have a long relationship with your upline and downline and so know these people very well. What do you already know? Off course you know they have children and how they look like. But showing empathy means caring about who they really are, even accept their differences. How to integrate this in your daily communication? #1 Put your goals aside for 10 minutes and listen to others what they need and care about. Use ears, eyes and your HEART. #2 Tell your own story off course and make room in it for other stories. Tell others everyone is welcome in your life for a greater purpose in life, doing someting together is worth more while than being a loner. #3 Watch out for your EGO! If you think all of the time at your income, your goal settings and how beautifull you are, people around you will hate you for that, at least after a while. It is not always about you, remember...

Communication effects hugely your goals. 3 massive tips #1 Tell your own story, not that from your upline or downline but really yours and why you are doing what you are doing! #2 Combine the following methods: - face to face : this should be number one, all of the time, because you can put more empathy in the conversation based on a natural way. - by telephone : if really necesarry or if you know the person and want to hear him or her after a long time. - e-mail: daily to new people with permission - social media : 2 to 3 times a day (morning, noon and evening) #3 Keep these communication methods in an archive, so you are able to evaluate what is working for you and what isn't. Have fun all day with what you are doing!