Inspiring YOU in kindness for people

My November theme is all about the dark days transformating in light. If you want to put light into your life in these dark days due to the fall and winter in the last months of 2016 use positive thoughts and words. In the summer positive thinking is easier and feels lighter than today. When you use the positive energy you give others love and constructive thoughts. Don't expect instant positive response, the vibes have to find its way into the others mind and heart. Which words do you have to chose and use? Talk about beauty, all the good things in the world, the noble, the construction and above all the love. The power of these words will give light into the mind and hearts, they will act in a higher energy state, they will flourish and they will pass it on to others. Say something positive, what brings advantage to others or make them happy. You will be happy in return.   

What the hell is happening? You work and you learn and above all the things that really matters in your life you get a daily overflow of information. How to deal with this? First I wanna share with you my insights. At the end of the day I am tired and all  I wanna do is relax my brain and body, be still for a few hours, watch a show or movie and go to bed. And in weekends take a breath and enjoy the free days. But what is true? Instead I keep reading and go for a walk, work in my home and before I know it I am tired once again. Why is that I wondered? I want to learn a lot of things in life before I die and nowadays we have a lot of information on internet, in books, and even outdoors. All the time we are blinded by so many people, publicity and information. Last week I went several times into the Woods and spend an hour in nature to calm down. It worked out just fine and this week I will do the same. But still I have to be carefull with the overload even if the temp...

What about it? Is this really about sex? Sex is like money, you need it and still you don't like to talk about it. Instead you laugh or you flirt. Or you cry and you have sorrows about it. SEX and MONEY, what a mess it can be in your life. And still they are both our basic needs and the shame is so big to talk about it that it sometimes makes you sick. It causes pain and disasters in our lives. Try asking today to someone what he or she wants to say about SEX. Try a little survey if you dare. You will be surprised about the answers and non-verbal behaviour. May I take you in a  conversation about SEX? Once I was not ashamed at all to talk about it and I saw the lights in others their eyes when I mentionned SEX. So it is truly so human that our eyes shine more than you talk for instance about the weather. Who cares about the weather? Damn, SEX is interesting, is not it? But you also know it can be a pleasure most of the time but on the othe...

Yes, the whole world has to deal with the same problems. From the beginning of humankind untill today in the "new and creative age", people are still very afraid of uncertainty, failure and poverty. And especially of terror, the worst fear of them all. Nobody wants to be captured and killed on the street by bombs. We thought we had it all under control and we are save in our own houses and country, but what is left of it??? Nothing is certain anymore, nothing! And that's why we have to deal with our fears more than ever. To all the people in the world who are victims of terror , help each other by listening and caring. Be strong and wise, don't put your anger into an inner war. Deal with your fear by being there for someone in need. Even if you have no family left, there are still others to help or help you.  At this moment in my life I inspire you and others to build an inner strenght and to deal with the brutal way of living right now in t...

There is no better teacher than life and no better leadership lessons than what you’ve learned from experience, In a society roided-out on bling, cash, ego, nakedness and status we have lost our authenticity. We have lost morals and what it means to be ourselves. So many are caught up in following the crowd they have gotten lost in it. How can any type of true success come from being a follower? Followers are lost to their authenticity and are chasers of “status” and “wealth.” Followers are competitive, insecure and consistently positioning and provoking to one-up each other. The stand-out successes we all admire are not in the crowd, they aren’t chasing cash, or being cool. It doesn’t mean they don’t love nice things or indulge in them; it means they approach success from a different mindset. Read more on the inspirational Belgian Network blog

Networking can help you land your dream job , make a successful career change and meet amazing, like-minded people. But if you’re an introvert or ambivert who finds being around people exhausting, having to do it can be super tough (meeting a ton of new people and  small talk?), even though you know it’ll be good for your career. To get some smart suggestions on how the quieter half can handle the situation, we reached out to Amy K. Hall , a Brooklyn, NY-based career and life coach who specializes in personal growth and leadership. Keep reading for Amy’s six tips for introverts that’ll totally help you rock the next networking event you go to. Read more

Learning is not all about knowledge, it is a way of living. Even better, it is a lifestyle! And it is fun too! But what is really learning now? You read a book and you want to know everything about making APPS for instance. You begin with a lot of courage and spirit. On page 25 you don't understand a word of what they are saying and you quit. "It is not for me, I am stupid etc... On that point you didn't learn anything so far, so it is time to hold on and persist in what you are learning. Everyone who passed this point of giving up are the best students. They are eager to learn and cope with their frustrations. Like I said it is a lifestyle, a commitment! Learning is holding on in frustration, feeling bad sometimes and the idea of quiting. We are living in a world where it is a pleasure to keep learning new things, applications and reaching out to each other to do so. For those who want to learn, the future is now. It is never a waste of time, nev...